David Woode said "The ability to party and leave worries at the door?
You need to get a sense of humour. Being silly is a start. Role playing is essential to being silly. Being British gives you a head start, though I note the Vietnamese have a silly culture too. Partying is all about humor and having a good time, letting go, relaxing, telling yourself it's fun to have fun, etc. Start by telling a joke about yourself. Remember life is ridiculous. Nothing really makes any sense. Laugh at life. Be funny. Reinvent yourself as a clown then praying will be a pleasure you will enjoy.