Why do some narcissists completely discard you, while others try to?
Thsts exactly how my ex was. We started out as fwbs, and ended up that way after 5 years. I couldn't do it anymore because I'm looking for something thsts real. They are wanting their cake and pie and eat it too! They want just the sex, and run around like a single person without strings. I constantly asked were we or were we not in a relationship and he would say he didn't have time to discuss relationship shit. Oh God forbid I interrupt a stimulating rerun episode of Gunsmoke! To heck with that! Closed case of being nothing more than a narcissistic lethario!